Pastor Darian's Musings

Pastor Darian's Musings


Why Not To Go To Church: Turning the Question on Ourselves

The last time I took a Sunday off, there was a flood.

No, that statement does not mean that I haven’t taken a vacation since Noah built the ark. Look back through old blog posts on this site, and you’ll quickly see the value I place on time off!

I was in a city where rainfall began early on a Sunday morning and continued throughout the day. Flash floods were rampant, and increasing inches of water broke rainfall records for the city. I awoke that morning with plans to visit a local church that I frequented on vacation—until I turned on the television. A weather reporter clutched his blue poncho around his suit, the other hand clutching the microphone. He yelled over the wind:

Do not go out unless you absolutely have to!

But I absolutely have to go to church, I told myself. I had planned to go to church. I couldn’t let a little rain keep me from worshipping the Lord. If I were not on vacation, I’d have to be there for my job!

I went outside to discover that streets were closed and cars had hydroplaned. I was in a city that was only vaguely familiar to me, and the dark clouds made even the recognizable roads strange. Back in my room, watching Blue Poncho Weather Guy try to get his microphone under his hood, I decided not to go to church.

The weather can easily be an excuse not to go church, but it also reminds us that circumstances are beyond our control. Sometimes wisdom tells us to stay home, but legalism tells us to go to church because “it’s what we do.”

When I began working on this blog series entitled, “Why Not to Go To Church,” my intention was to listen for ways the church could become a place where people want to be.  I wanted to dig more deeply into why people were not attending church on a regular basis. What I discovered was the importance of shifting that question to ourselves.

1. Why do I go to church?

2. Why do I not go to church?

For those of us who are active in the church, sometimes we just need a break. The trouble develops when a “break” from worship becomes a habit. The habit becomes a routine, and the routine no longer includes the worship of God. This is the time of year where rain and cold keep us at home in fear of catching the flu or another bug from one another. We may initially stay away in fear of catching “something.” If we’re not careful, we’ll start avoiding the One who is trying to catch us.

Behind every answer to those questions are stories. The responses are more than mere excuses or reasons. Each word carries a load. As the body of Christ, we should listen carefully to each other’s reasons, excuses, rationalizations, and truths. Sometimes the floods of life, both figurative and literal, keep us from where we most want or need to be. When that happens, God meets us where we are.

I was glad when they said to me,
“Let us go to the house of the Lord!”
(Psalm 122:1, New Revised Standard Version)

Are we continually encouraging each other to go into God’s presence? Are we asking ourselves why we go or don’t go to the Lord’s house? Are we really listening to the answers?

On that rainy Sunday morning in a vague city, I returned to my room and pulled out a new CD by Michael W. Smith. I put it in my computer and turned up the volume. I made a cup of coffee, opened a package of cookies and settled into a chair with a book. One of the songs that I heard is in the video below. The chorus says:

Your plans are still to prosper.
You have not forgotten us.
You’re with us in the fire and the flood.
You’re faithful forever.
Perfect in love.
You are sovereign over us. *

We go to church because he is sovereign. We don’t go to church, but he’s still sovereign.

Wherever we are in our answer to, “Why?” let us not forget that the house of the Lord belongs to the Lord. It is a house with no limits, for all are welcome. Will you go into the house of the Lord with me?

all good things to each of you,

Pastor Darian

This song is from the new album SOVEREIGN.
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A Yoga Pause

Dearly Beloved Friends,

I must confess that I gave up my blog-writing time this week for other matters. While I will not be able to write a typical "musing," I do want to offer you something brief and different.

As a Yahweh Yoga teacher, I begin each yoga class with a verse of Scripture as our theme. I read it out loud twice, with silence in between. Sometimes I offer a short reflection on the verse before we meditate on it. I'd like to share with you the verse and reflection from this morning. When you get to the verse of Scripture, I invite you to pause in silence for one minute after reading it. If you struggle with silence, set a timer for one minute, and try the best you can to remain with the Scripture......

When we think of the worries, cares, and burdens we carry, we sing about laying them down. We pray for God to take the burdens away from us. We try to put them at the foot of the cross.

Have you ever thought about God removing you from the burden?

Psalm 81 recounts in praise the way that God delivered Joseph from prison. Listen to how God relieves Joseph of his burden...

"I removed his shoulder from the burden...."
(Psalm 81:6, New King James Version)

Instead of God taking a load of off Joseph's shoulders, God lovingly cups his hand beneath the load and sets his child free.

Instead of lifting a weight off of us, sometimes God removes us from the weight instead of removing the weight from us.

What is the burden that you bring [to your yoga mat] today? Try not to fight it off, shake it off, or beg God to take it off. Invite God to tend to your shoulder instead of what weighs down your shoulder today.

"I removed his shoulder from the burden...."

Close your eyes. Breathe. Sit with these words. Meditate upon them as God lovingly speaks them to your heart.

"I removed his shoulder from the burden...."

Pause. Breathe. Soak in the knowing that you are loved.

"I removed his shoulder from the burden...."

Go in peace, and the peace of Christ go with you.

I look forward to writing with you next week for the last piece in the current series, "Why Not To Go To Church."

all good things to each of you,
Pastor Darian